"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chasing Money, Not Women

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Nothing wrong with chasing the paper product @TyTe`EyEz. At least with that you are building something for the long term (assuming you do not spend it all). No problem on taking a woman or a few along with you for the ride, but money and asset building should be a person's (man or woman) top priority in the 21st century.
Yeah, I meant that if he's spending all his money, then it's a long road.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jaymbrs

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I miss that life sometimes too. Well, not so much the way of life as that time in my life...in school, no real responsiblity, hadn't hit the real world yet.

Sounds like you're living the life, though. I.e. taking women as they come and handling your business the rest of the time.
They're just not coming like they used to since I'm not really showing interest nor taking initiative. I'm hoping with this next promotion I'm supposed to get I'll be content with my salary to the point where I'll pump the brakes a little on my career focus and do some traveling or something.
 

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It's really tough when you aren't a natural seducer. Working long hours breaks up your rhythm, makes you less interesting and well rounded, and suppresses mood and confidence. My day game has seriously taken a hit since I started working 60+ hours a week because my reaction time and follow up is delayed.

At the same time, @da dynamically used to say that "the master Seducer guy who works 80 hours a week and drinks whiskey all weekend in the club gets laid more than the 'well rounded' guy," and there's a lot of truth to that if you can compartmentalize.
Yea my mood has definitely changed since I started taking my job very seriously. I'm not as quirky as I used to be nor portray my confidence like I usd to and that's making me feel like a boring person. So I don't blame some friendships or dates to fizzle out quick these days. But it is catching up to me and I'm needing a change.
 

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It's really tough when you aren't a natural seducer. Working long hours breaks up your rhythm, makes you less interesting and well rounded, and suppresses mood and confidence. My day game has seriously taken a hit since I started working 60+ hours a week because my reaction time and follow up is delayed.

At the same time, @da dynamically used to say that "the master Seducer guy who works 80 hours a week and drinks whiskey all weekend in the club gets laid more than the 'well rounded' guy," and there's a lot of truth to that if you can compartmentalize.
Why the fvck are you working 60 hour weeks dude ?
 
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