"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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charm?Is that what they say?

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dave007

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I have come across several articles and stuf that says be charming and you become attractive instantly, now, considering I dont get a **** of what it means..I'm intersted in knowing what it really is..and what behaviour would actually be considered charming but non kiddish?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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First post on the forum, hope it helps you out.

Being charming is about making others feel important, you letting them know that you feel for them and you have no motives behind acting like that, making someone feel that you are interested in what they are all about, women find this very sexy!

It's not that easy to obtain the so-called "Charm" but once you have it you will become the center of attention, people will like you instantly and feel your vibe, women go crazy over it.

Go back and think about things people have said that have made you feel good about yourself. This is exactly what makes someone charming, when there is no hidden motives behind them saying something nice.

Mean what you say .. if you aren't sincere they will smell it from a mile away, also a key to this is your eye contact with the person and of course smile, it does wonders.
 

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Thanks TMPGSTX. Dave, next time do a search you could have found this too.
 
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