"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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charm?Is that what they say?

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dave007

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I have come across several articles and stuf that says be charming and you become attractive instantly, now, considering I dont get a **** of what it means..I'm intersted in knowing what it really is..and what behaviour would actually be considered charming but non kiddish?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First post on the forum, hope it helps you out.

Being charming is about making others feel important, you letting them know that you feel for them and you have no motives behind acting like that, making someone feel that you are interested in what they are all about, women find this very sexy!

It's not that easy to obtain the so-called "Charm" but once you have it you will become the center of attention, people will like you instantly and feel your vibe, women go crazy over it.

Go back and think about things people have said that have made you feel good about yourself. This is exactly what makes someone charming, when there is no hidden motives behind them saying something nice.

Mean what you say .. if you aren't sincere they will smell it from a mile away, also a key to this is your eye contact with the person and of course smile, it does wonders.
 

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Thanks TMPGSTX. Dave, next time do a search you could have found this too.
 
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