"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Charm and Wit

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Charm is when you go up to a random chick on the street and grab her boobs. Try it sometime, women love it.

Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
 

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because you have been told over and over and over to read the DJ bible.

there are 60 posts in ur origional thread.

and you stil wrote at 60...I need more help.

you need to sack up and read the DJ bible...and start getting on with ur improvement
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Crank_It_Up

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Unfortunately, to be charming and witty, you have to be able to think for yourself, in which case you wouldn't have felt the need to post this thread.
 

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Charm is knowing what you want and being pleasantly persistant about it.
 

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Yo all you guys with the "go read bible etc. vague ass answers" don't really know what charm is. Charm is basically charisma

In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
 

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If Bush has charisma:

Charisma is looking and acting like a chimpanzee.

To be even handed, he other chap does seem a bit of a donkey.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Yo all you guys with the "go read bible etc. vague ass answers" don't really know what charm is. Charm is basically charisma

In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
If Bush has charisma, I don't want charisma.
 

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Charm is when you go up to a random chick on the street and grab her boobs. Try it sometime, women love it.

Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
In the time it took you to right that you could have simply answered his question.

Charm and Witt mean whatever value you put to them. Meaning what I put to Charm and Witt is different from wht you percieve, same with fashion, good looks, and everything in life.

So asking what other people think something means is meaningless, You should find out yourself and define your own life.
 

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Bill Clinton was charismatic, but Bush is just a buffoon. Kerry is very blah.

P.S. I'm a registered Republican.
 

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I reckon Clinton is charismatic.

One thing though. How come he was the most powerful man in the world, with all that charisma and then pulls a fat bird?

Kennedy? now we're talking.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
Charm is basically charisma

In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
I do not fully agree,altough charm and charisma are similar. Charm attracts women (not men) whereas charisma makes you respectable to both genders. Charisma IMO is the quality to stick out of a crowd (people notice you in a crowd high above average). Charisma is a quality whereas charm involves action (with eyes (EC) and mouth).
Wit is IMO a sophisticated (but not nerdy) type of humor.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok... now that we have a bunch of crap jumbled on here...
tell me? what does knowing the definition of charm and wit going to do for you?
Seriously... so like if you know what the definition is then.. your like gona know how to do it? are you smoking somthing?
you only gain social skills by being a social animal you cant think this one out or imagine it late at night when your alone in the dark... you have to go out and talk to ppl... eventually you will start to get good at talking to ppl.. and like.. yeah.
That is why ppl post "DO BOOT CAMP U ****ING JACKASS"
because the things you want only come from long periods of experience it all depends on you.. going out... and talking to ppl ... women guys everyone just start talking to ppl you will find most of them dont have hancuffs and lube under there coat and can be very friendly.
 
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