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Don Juan
What really is a Charm and being Witty with women?
What are some examples? or situations?
What are some examples? or situations?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
If Bush has charisma, I don't want charisma.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Yo all you guys with the "go read bible etc. vague ass answers" don't really know what charm is. Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
In the time it took you to right that you could have simply answered his question.Charm is when you go up to a random chick on the street and grab her boobs. Try it sometime, women love it.
Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
I do not fully agree,altough charm and charisma are similar. Charm attracts women (not men) whereas charisma makes you respectable to both genders. Charisma IMO is the quality to stick out of a crowd (people notice you in a crowd high above average). Charisma is a quality whereas charm involves action (with eyes (EC) and mouth).Originally posted by AFK Protector
Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.