SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
What really is a Charm and being Witty with women?
What are some examples? or situations?
What are some examples? or situations?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Charm and Wit
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
are you a troll?
serious?
serious?
Charm is when you go up to a random chick on the street and grab her boobs. Try it sometime, women love it.
Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
friv : my thread is legitmate so how does that make me a troll?
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
because you have been told over and over and over to read the DJ bible.
there are 60 posts in ur origional thread.
and you stil wrote at 60...I need more help.
you need to sack up and read the DJ bible...and start getting on with ur improvement
there are 60 posts in ur origional thread.
and you stil wrote at 60...I need more help.
you need to sack up and read the DJ bible...and start getting on with ur improvement
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Crank_It_Up
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Unfortunately, to be charming and witty, you have to be able to think for yourself, in which case you wouldn't have felt the need to post this thread.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
DJ Bible does not tell you anything about Charm and Wittyness
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Yo all you guys with the "go read bible etc. vague ass answers" don't really know what charm is. Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
If Bush has charisma:
Charisma is looking and acting like a chimpanzee.
To be even handed, he other chap does seem a bit of a donkey.
Charisma is looking and acting like a chimpanzee.
To be even handed, he other chap does seem a bit of a donkey.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
If Bush has charisma, I don't want charisma.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Yo all you guys with the "go read bible etc. vague ass answers" don't really know what charm is. Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
CapiCrimini
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In the time it took you to right that you could have simply answered his question.Charm is when you go up to a random chick on the street and grab her boobs. Try it sometime, women love it.
Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
Charm and Witt mean whatever value you put to them. Meaning what I put to Charm and Witt is different from wht you percieve, same with fashion, good looks, and everything in life.
So asking what other people think something means is meaningless, You should find out yourself and define your own life.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
Bill Clinton was charismatic, but Bush is just a buffoon. Kerry is very blah.
P.S. I'm a registered Republican.
P.S. I'm a registered Republican.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I reckon Clinton is charismatic.
One thing though. How come he was the most powerful man in the world, with all that charisma and then pulls a fat bird?
Kennedy? now we're talking.
One thing though. How come he was the most powerful man in the world, with all that charisma and then pulls a fat bird?
Kennedy? now we're talking.
I do not fully agree,altough charm and charisma are similar. Charm attracts women (not men) whereas charisma makes you respectable to both genders. Charisma IMO is the quality to stick out of a crowd (people notice you in a crowd high above average). Charisma is a quality whereas charm involves action (with eyes (EC) and mouth).Originally posted by AFK Protector
Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
Wit is IMO a sophisticated (but not nerdy) type of humor.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ok... now that we have a bunch of crap jumbled on here...
tell me? what does knowing the definition of charm and wit going to do for you?
Seriously... so like if you know what the definition is then.. your like gona know how to do it? are you smoking somthing?
you only gain social skills by being a social animal you cant think this one out or imagine it late at night when your alone in the dark... you have to go out and talk to ppl... eventually you will start to get good at talking to ppl.. and like.. yeah.
That is why ppl post "DO BOOT CAMP U ****ING JACKASS"
because the things you want only come from long periods of experience it all depends on you.. going out... and talking to ppl ... women guys everyone just start talking to ppl you will find most of them dont have hancuffs and lube under there coat and can be very friendly.
tell me? what does knowing the definition of charm and wit going to do for you?
Seriously... so like if you know what the definition is then.. your like gona know how to do it? are you smoking somthing?
you only gain social skills by being a social animal you cant think this one out or imagine it late at night when your alone in the dark... you have to go out and talk to ppl... eventually you will start to get good at talking to ppl.. and like.. yeah.
That is why ppl post "DO BOOT CAMP U ****ING JACKASS"
because the things you want only come from long periods of experience it all depends on you.. going out... and talking to ppl ... women guys everyone just start talking to ppl you will find most of them dont have hancuffs and lube under there coat and can be very friendly.