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Don Juan
What really is a Charm and being Witty with women?
What are some examples? or situations?
What are some examples? or situations?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
If Bush has charisma, I don't want charisma.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Yo all you guys with the "go read bible etc. vague ass answers" don't really know what charm is. Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
In the time it took you to right that you could have simply answered his question.Charm is when you go up to a random chick on the street and grab her boobs. Try it sometime, women love it.
Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
I do not fully agree,altough charm and charisma are similar. Charm attracts women (not men) whereas charisma makes you respectable to both genders. Charisma IMO is the quality to stick out of a crowd (people notice you in a crowd high above average). Charisma is a quality whereas charm involves action (with eyes (EC) and mouth).Originally posted by AFK Protector
Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.