SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
What really is a Charm and being Witty with women?
What are some examples? or situations?
What are some examples? or situations?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Charm and Wit
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
are you a troll?
serious?
serious?
Charm is when you go up to a random chick on the street and grab her boobs. Try it sometime, women love it.
Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
friv : my thread is legitmate so how does that make me a troll?
frivolousz21
Master Don Juan
because you have been told over and over and over to read the DJ bible.
there are 60 posts in ur origional thread.
and you stil wrote at 60...I need more help.
you need to sack up and read the DJ bible...and start getting on with ur improvement
there are 60 posts in ur origional thread.
and you stil wrote at 60...I need more help.
you need to sack up and read the DJ bible...and start getting on with ur improvement
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Crank_It_Up
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Unfortunately, to be charming and witty, you have to be able to think for yourself, in which case you wouldn't have felt the need to post this thread.
SIXPAKGQ
Don Juan
DJ Bible does not tell you anything about Charm and Wittyness
AFK Protector
Master Don Juan
Yo all you guys with the "go read bible etc. vague ass answers" don't really know what charm is. Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
If Bush has charisma:
Charisma is looking and acting like a chimpanzee.
To be even handed, he other chap does seem a bit of a donkey.
Charisma is looking and acting like a chimpanzee.
To be even handed, he other chap does seem a bit of a donkey.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If Bush has charisma, I don't want charisma.Originally posted by AFK Protector
Yo all you guys with the "go read bible etc. vague ass answers" don't really know what charm is. Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
CapiCrimini
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In the time it took you to right that you could have simply answered his question.Charm is when you go up to a random chick on the street and grab her boobs. Try it sometime, women love it.
Wit is when you go and pull your penis out and begin beating the nearest female with it. Try this too, women will go nuts for a guy that just beats them silly. Try to do this as public as possible, like say in the mall. For bonus points, try this on a female police officer. Don't worry, they love it, they're just pretending to reach for their mace....
Charm and Witt mean whatever value you put to them. Meaning what I put to Charm and Witt is different from wht you percieve, same with fashion, good looks, and everything in life.
So asking what other people think something means is meaningless, You should find out yourself and define your own life.
MrCode
Senior Don Juan
Bill Clinton was charismatic, but Bush is just a buffoon. Kerry is very blah.
P.S. I'm a registered Republican.
P.S. I'm a registered Republican.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I reckon Clinton is charismatic.
One thing though. How come he was the most powerful man in the world, with all that charisma and then pulls a fat bird?
Kennedy? now we're talking.
One thing though. How come he was the most powerful man in the world, with all that charisma and then pulls a fat bird?
Kennedy? now we're talking.
I do not fully agree,altough charm and charisma are similar. Charm attracts women (not men) whereas charisma makes you respectable to both genders. Charisma IMO is the quality to stick out of a crowd (people notice you in a crowd high above average). Charisma is a quality whereas charm involves action (with eyes (EC) and mouth).Originally posted by AFK Protector
Charm is basically charisma
In a nutshell, that is the ability of one that allows them to be readily assimilated into a social group and freely travel to and fro from one group to another. You have lots of connections and you respect everyone. People all respect you too. This is why bush will win the 04 election. cuz he has more charisma than that kerry donkey.
Wit is IMO a sophisticated (but not nerdy) type of humor.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ok... now that we have a bunch of crap jumbled on here...
tell me? what does knowing the definition of charm and wit going to do for you?
Seriously... so like if you know what the definition is then.. your like gona know how to do it? are you smoking somthing?
you only gain social skills by being a social animal you cant think this one out or imagine it late at night when your alone in the dark... you have to go out and talk to ppl... eventually you will start to get good at talking to ppl.. and like.. yeah.
That is why ppl post "DO BOOT CAMP U ****ING JACKASS"
because the things you want only come from long periods of experience it all depends on you.. going out... and talking to ppl ... women guys everyone just start talking to ppl you will find most of them dont have hancuffs and lube under there coat and can be very friendly.
tell me? what does knowing the definition of charm and wit going to do for you?
Seriously... so like if you know what the definition is then.. your like gona know how to do it? are you smoking somthing?
you only gain social skills by being a social animal you cant think this one out or imagine it late at night when your alone in the dark... you have to go out and talk to ppl... eventually you will start to get good at talking to ppl.. and like.. yeah.
That is why ppl post "DO BOOT CAMP U ****ING JACKASS"
because the things you want only come from long periods of experience it all depends on you.. going out... and talking to ppl ... women guys everyone just start talking to ppl you will find most of them dont have hancuffs and lube under there coat and can be very friendly.