Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Who cares ? Game is not about cult like brainwashing. Trying to grasp for something good out of an evil situation is always a losing encounter. Meanwhile, I’ll achieve semi-god status in my next life…Man he is a role model in terms of game. If you could be as influential as him but not evil just imagine you could do anything.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I'm not sure we can draw any "game" conclusions from what Manson was doing. He had some sort of weird, cult-like influence over susceptible people, not sure how that happens. Maybe a combination of charisma and a void that needs filled in the people who follow him.in any event, manson was 5'2, not exactly a stunner and sported a swastika on his head. the guy had harems of women by the time he was of juvie and had these women do whatever he wanted.
but we have guys here posting daily about how their looks, lack of money, or whatever self imposed issue they have is holding them back with women.
We're talking about people who were commanded by Manson to commit horrifically brutal murders, shooting and stabbing people to death, including a pregnant woman who was begging for her baby's life. I think that goes a little beyond "social dynamics". Being scammed is one thing, but no, I don't think that well adjusted, mentally healthy people are going to follow the suggestions of some psychopath to that extent.there didnt have to be anything wrong with the people he brainwashed. people are scammed and tricked every single day.
I was saying it was probably a little of both. I'm guessing he filled some sort of need or want in them. Takes two to tango.youre saying its easier to believe that most of the women (and many men) he dealt with were not normal, mentally stable/healthy rather than believe he was just that charming and manipulative?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I never said he wasn't charming, although I have no interest in Manson's dating life. But there's a big difference between someone inviting you to stay at their house and plunging a knife into someone 28 times. That goes a little beyond seduction and "interacting with people", IMO.if you want to say the girls that took part in the actual murders were damaged goods, i can accept that. but it wasnt just those girls. this guy had more than a lifetime of women dedicated to him throughout his life. even a world famous musician in his prime invited him to stay at his place because of the amount of women that flocked to him.
you cant discredit seduction because of who did it and to what ends.