"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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changing mindset

machiaveli

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Every experienced DJ will tell you, first you have to change the mindset and everything else will follow. I believe this to be true for all of us, with techniques only you won't go far, and never be completely happy about your life.

In most of the post i find, that they will tell what the mindset is and what you should have. But NOT how to get that, and how to work at it. I believe that this is the main reason for people failing at things, that they don't know how to do it and are afraid of failure.

Anyone good advice on this? or links to good threads?..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Brutus

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David D.'s second ebook Attraction Isn't A Choice has some great chapters about attitude, mindset and psychology of seduction. I think it would be a good start for you.
 

Zog

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A few books I would suggest.
Awaken the giant within -- tony robbins
Think and grow rich -- napoleon hill

There are others, but those 2 have some awesome techniques.
 
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