"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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machiaveli

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Every experienced DJ will tell you, first you have to change the mindset and everything else will follow. I believe this to be true for all of us, with techniques only you won't go far, and never be completely happy about your life.

In most of the post i find, that they will tell what the mindset is and what you should have. But NOT how to get that, and how to work at it. I believe that this is the main reason for people failing at things, that they don't know how to do it and are afraid of failure.

Anyone good advice on this? or links to good threads?..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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David D.'s second ebook Attraction Isn't A Choice has some great chapters about attitude, mindset and psychology of seduction. I think it would be a good start for you.
 
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A few books I would suggest.
Awaken the giant within -- tony robbins
Think and grow rich -- napoleon hill

There are others, but those 2 have some awesome techniques.
 
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