"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Every experienced DJ will tell you, first you have to change the mindset and everything else will follow. I believe this to be true for all of us, with techniques only you won't go far, and never be completely happy about your life.

In most of the post i find, that they will tell what the mindset is and what you should have. But NOT how to get that, and how to work at it. I believe that this is the main reason for people failing at things, that they don't know how to do it and are afraid of failure.

Anyone good advice on this? or links to good threads?..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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David D.'s second ebook Attraction Isn't A Choice has some great chapters about attitude, mindset and psychology of seduction. I think it would be a good start for you.
 
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A few books I would suggest.
Awaken the giant within -- tony robbins
Think and grow rich -- napoleon hill

There are others, but those 2 have some awesome techniques.
 
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