"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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changing mindset

machiaveli

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Every experienced DJ will tell you, first you have to change the mindset and everything else will follow. I believe this to be true for all of us, with techniques only you won't go far, and never be completely happy about your life.

In most of the post i find, that they will tell what the mindset is and what you should have. But NOT how to get that, and how to work at it. I believe that this is the main reason for people failing at things, that they don't know how to do it and are afraid of failure.

Anyone good advice on this? or links to good threads?..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Brutus

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David D.'s second ebook Attraction Isn't A Choice has some great chapters about attitude, mindset and psychology of seduction. I think it would be a good start for you.
 

Zog

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A few books I would suggest.
Awaken the giant within -- tony robbins
Think and grow rich -- napoleon hill

There are others, but those 2 have some awesome techniques.
 
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