"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Changes in my life since i visit this site

zorg198

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Hello All,

I just wanted to share with you guys some insigts and changes i have been doing in my life since i came to this site.

well, at first i was so clingy and AFC ( well we all are in some point) but since i joined this site i changed my life completely! i was working out over a year now so the results already there but what was needed to change is the way i was thinking , so i did!

1. stopped caring what girls think , i don't any permission from them
2. changed the way i dress, loosing weight has its shortcoming and advantages
3.became more active , going to parties all the time , even in the middle of the week( life is too short)

i don't know what but event the girl at work who i had clingy problems suddenly changed ( don't care to tell the truth)but it fun to see the sudden change throwads me meaning the change was for good.

now my question to you all is what i do from here ? i mean do you think there are more things i need to be better at? body language?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MrJibbles

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I would say start spinning other plates. In other words, have a back-up girl to keep you from being clingy. Spinning plates can also involve developing yourself as a person, too. This includes working out, exercise, improving your skills or investing time in a worthwhile hobby.
 

zorg198

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MrJibbles said:
I would say start spinning other plates. In other words, have a back-up girl to keep you from being clingy. Spinning plates can also involve developing yourself as a person, too. This includes working out, exercise, improving your skills or investing time in a worthwhile hobby.
i will never be clingy again in my life for a girl! i learned my lesson , working out , exercise this kind of stuff i am doing anyway...
 

Maximummax

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Develop some Humor skills if you don't have
Your carrier is very important, have short term and long term goals.

Other things are covered by MrJibbles
 

zorg198

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Humor skills i have , i make people at work /friends all the time . even girls....
carrier - i agree , working to develop myself all the time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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