"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Changes in my life since i visit this site

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Hello All,

I just wanted to share with you guys some insigts and changes i have been doing in my life since i came to this site.

well, at first i was so clingy and AFC ( well we all are in some point) but since i joined this site i changed my life completely! i was working out over a year now so the results already there but what was needed to change is the way i was thinking , so i did!

1. stopped caring what girls think , i don't any permission from them
2. changed the way i dress, loosing weight has its shortcoming and advantages
3.became more active , going to parties all the time , even in the middle of the week( life is too short)

i don't know what but event the girl at work who i had clingy problems suddenly changed ( don't care to tell the truth)but it fun to see the sudden change throwads me meaning the change was for good.

now my question to you all is what i do from here ? i mean do you think there are more things i need to be better at? body language?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would say start spinning other plates. In other words, have a back-up girl to keep you from being clingy. Spinning plates can also involve developing yourself as a person, too. This includes working out, exercise, improving your skills or investing time in a worthwhile hobby.
 
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MrJibbles said:
I would say start spinning other plates. In other words, have a back-up girl to keep you from being clingy. Spinning plates can also involve developing yourself as a person, too. This includes working out, exercise, improving your skills or investing time in a worthwhile hobby.
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i will never be clingy again in my life for a girl! i learned my lesson , working out , exercise this kind of stuff i am doing anyway...
 
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Develop some Humor skills if you don't have
Your carrier is very important, have short term and long term goals.

Other things are covered by MrJibbles
 
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Humor skills i have , i make people at work /friends all the time . even girls....
carrier - i agree , working to develop myself all the time.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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