"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hello All,

I just wanted to share with you guys some insigts and changes i have been doing in my life since i came to this site.

well, at first i was so clingy and AFC ( well we all are in some point) but since i joined this site i changed my life completely! i was working out over a year now so the results already there but what was needed to change is the way i was thinking , so i did!

1. stopped caring what girls think , i don't any permission from them
2. changed the way i dress, loosing weight has its shortcoming and advantages
3.became more active , going to parties all the time , even in the middle of the week( life is too short)

i don't know what but event the girl at work who i had clingy problems suddenly changed ( don't care to tell the truth)but it fun to see the sudden change throwads me meaning the change was for good.

now my question to you all is what i do from here ? i mean do you think there are more things i need to be better at? body language?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I would say start spinning other plates. In other words, have a back-up girl to keep you from being clingy. Spinning plates can also involve developing yourself as a person, too. This includes working out, exercise, improving your skills or investing time in a worthwhile hobby.
 
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MrJibbles said:
I would say start spinning other plates. In other words, have a back-up girl to keep you from being clingy. Spinning plates can also involve developing yourself as a person, too. This includes working out, exercise, improving your skills or investing time in a worthwhile hobby.
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i will never be clingy again in my life for a girl! i learned my lesson , working out , exercise this kind of stuff i am doing anyway...
 
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Develop some Humor skills if you don't have
Your carrier is very important, have short term and long term goals.

Other things are covered by MrJibbles
 
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Humor skills i have , i make people at work /friends all the time . even girls....
carrier - i agree , working to develop myself all the time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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