"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Changed my mind, texting is kind of stupid.

st_99

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2006
Messages
1,783
Reaction score
59
I was with this girl the other day who was sitting there exchanging
texts with some guy she just started dating or whatever you want to
call it.

It just seemed kind of lame. The whole time I'm thinking, just f*cking
call her dude.

:p
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

loveshogun

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 19, 2009
Messages
719
Reaction score
35
I've been busy as sh*t lately, so I've been playing the text game with friends and coworkers for meetups/work and such.

This problem has transitioned to my personal life recently, when I made the mistake of texting a girl whose number I pulled last week.

Without thinking, I texted her on Monday offering to meet up this Wednesday evening for a drink. Did not hear back. I deleted her number.

I'm not saying that she didn't respond BECAUSE I texted her. But if she was on the fence about me (rare for women to be on the fence about anyone) it definitely didn't help that I slipped up and didn't just call.

See? Love Shogun makes some stupid mistakes sometimes, too.

I'll be astounded if I receive any sort of reply.
 

Yachtie

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 20, 2010
Messages
55
Reaction score
1
Location
New York
interesting perspective from the other side.
it helps to know how to text well though too (that is, not typing too much, too soon, too often, or too poorly).

for the plate i'm primarily interested in, i changed her title field in my blackberry address book to say ###STOP###. So, when I go to text/bbm/call her, it will remind me to stop being a chump. it's worked wonders.
 

loveshogun

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 19, 2009
Messages
719
Reaction score
35
My text was something along these lines:

Hey, it's Love Shogun. 9pm Wednesday for a drink?

It's to the point, but it's not like a call. On a call, I don't sit around waiting like a jackass.
 

teacha

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 16, 2009
Messages
411
Reaction score
141
Location
wall street
st_99 said:
I was with this girl the other day who was sitting there exchanging
texts with some guy she just started dating or whatever you want to
call it.

It just seemed kind of lame. The whole time I'm thinking, just f*cking
call her dude.

:p
you seem to be under the impression that whatever you say is law here, it's not like your opinions matter anyways:rolleyes:.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

st_99

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2006
Messages
1,783
Reaction score
59
teacha said:
you seem to be under the impression that whatever you say is law here, it's not like your opinions matter anyways:rolleyes:.
Its always an opinion, nothing less, nothing more. Take it for what
it is.
 
Top