“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Changed my mind, texting is kind of stupid.

st_99

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I was with this girl the other day who was sitting there exchanging
texts with some guy she just started dating or whatever you want to
call it.

It just seemed kind of lame. The whole time I'm thinking, just f*cking
call her dude.

:p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I've been busy as sh*t lately, so I've been playing the text game with friends and coworkers for meetups/work and such.

This problem has transitioned to my personal life recently, when I made the mistake of texting a girl whose number I pulled last week.

Without thinking, I texted her on Monday offering to meet up this Wednesday evening for a drink. Did not hear back. I deleted her number.

I'm not saying that she didn't respond BECAUSE I texted her. But if she was on the fence about me (rare for women to be on the fence about anyone) it definitely didn't help that I slipped up and didn't just call.

See? Love Shogun makes some stupid mistakes sometimes, too.

I'll be astounded if I receive any sort of reply.
 

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interesting perspective from the other side.
it helps to know how to text well though too (that is, not typing too much, too soon, too often, or too poorly).

for the plate i'm primarily interested in, i changed her title field in my blackberry address book to say ###STOP###. So, when I go to text/bbm/call her, it will remind me to stop being a chump. it's worked wonders.
 

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My text was something along these lines:

Hey, it's Love Shogun. 9pm Wednesday for a drink?

It's to the point, but it's not like a call. On a call, I don't sit around waiting like a jackass.
 

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st_99 said:
I was with this girl the other day who was sitting there exchanging
texts with some guy she just started dating or whatever you want to
call it.

It just seemed kind of lame. The whole time I'm thinking, just f*cking
call her dude.

:p
you seem to be under the impression that whatever you say is law here, it's not like your opinions matter anyways:rolleyes:.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

st_99

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teacha said:
you seem to be under the impression that whatever you say is law here, it's not like your opinions matter anyways:rolleyes:.
Its always an opinion, nothing less, nothing more. Take it for what
it is.
 
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