When I first found this site, it helped me see things from a different perspective. So, I did what I thought was the way to fix things. I lied to myself and made myself believe I was someone that I was no where near. and it worked. For over a year, Ive been blind, until 3 months ago.
That is when I discovered that CHANGE comes from conflict. CHANGE comes from going out there, taking a risk, succeeding/crashing, and learning from it. If you keep sitting there doing nothing, you will get no where.
I'm a better person than I was. I can feel it in my bones. And it's because I finally took some ****ing risks in life, crashed and burned, and learned from it. I've finally realized it and I grew the balls to take action. And guess what, it's the best feeling in the world.
If you are unhappy with where you are, get ****ing ready. If you want change, you are going to have to take some risks.
You are going to have to FACE your fears and be a man. Lying to yourself will not help. You can lie to yourself all you want; you can find millions of excuses to why you shouldnt approach that girl, why you shouldnt go lift today, or why you shouldnt study for your test. But in the end, YOU ARE NOT being a man, you are just feeding yourself with bull**** and digging your own hole deeper.
That's what it all comes down to: you either do something or you don't. No excuses. No more lying to yourself. And believe me once you start actually doing and working to improve, improvement will come.
That is when I discovered that CHANGE comes from conflict. CHANGE comes from going out there, taking a risk, succeeding/crashing, and learning from it. If you keep sitting there doing nothing, you will get no where.
I'm a better person than I was. I can feel it in my bones. And it's because I finally took some ****ing risks in life, crashed and burned, and learned from it. I've finally realized it and I grew the balls to take action. And guess what, it's the best feeling in the world.
If you are unhappy with where you are, get ****ing ready. If you want change, you are going to have to take some risks.
You are going to have to FACE your fears and be a man. Lying to yourself will not help. You can lie to yourself all you want; you can find millions of excuses to why you shouldnt approach that girl, why you shouldnt go lift today, or why you shouldnt study for your test. But in the end, YOU ARE NOT being a man, you are just feeding yourself with bull**** and digging your own hole deeper.
That's what it all comes down to: you either do something or you don't. No excuses. No more lying to yourself. And believe me once you start actually doing and working to improve, improvement will come.
