“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mission

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Hey guys,

As we know, none of us on this site use our real names, we disguise ourselves underneath our aliases. As much as this is a fun tool for forum use, I think it also gives us a bit of a double personality, are we really the person we say we are online? How do we know that the posted field reports aren't made up? How do we take what we learn on this site to the streets, bars, and clubs?

Here is a piece of advice I am going to share with you that helps me immensely when I am feeling out of my flow. My whole life I have been Adam (that is my real name, now you know) Everything about Adam is my whole life, all the memories, all past relationships, everything. So sometimes being Adam can be overwhelming because it feels like all my old emotions come up. So when I feel like I really need to get to the core and figure out what my game is about, I let myself become Mission. Sure, it is just my online persona, but I tell myself that Mission was born when I first started looking on mASF at fastseduction.com; I tell myself that what Mission knows is everything that has happened since mASF. And strangely, it helps me alot, it helps me get into a good frame. I think, "how would Mission act, how would Mission walk, how would Mission talk to girls"; as wierd as it sounds guys, it works extremely well, you can feel an almost immiediate change in your attitude. Of course deep down I am still Adam, I am still myself and I have the same interests and life goals, Mission is my identity when it comes to girls, I no longer think, how would Adam deal with women, I think, "how would Mission deal with this girl". Just try this guys, think of yourself as reborn at the moment that you signed up for an account on mASF or sosuave.com. All you know about women is what you have learned on this site, keep past experiences with girls in the past.

--Mission
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Great way to think about things. Your online persona is you, and I can easily see how this is a better mindset than "How would a Don Juan handle this?"...I use this name on a few websites/accounts--"SupaJ" is a very old nickname of mine given by an uncle...my real name is Jon. My uncle is an incredibly cool guy--if anybody else calls me SupaJ it sounds retarded. He's a confident dude. To me, so is SupaJ.
 

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It's a good idea, but getting caught up in your 'other personality' may not be the best idea. Why not have Adam and Mission become one person? This way you would act instinctually, instead of having to think.
 

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My real name is Tavi so theres no big diferrence, DJ all the way :D
 

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Skilla_Staz said:
It's a good idea, but getting caught up in your 'other personality' may not be the best idea. Why not have Adam and Mission become one person? This way you would act instinctually, instead of having to think.
Yeah thats the general concept, this technique was something I would use when I felt like I was going back to my AFC ways, kind of a way of keeping yourself in check. As it is now, they are one person.

--Mission
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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