"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mission

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Hey guys,

As we know, none of us on this site use our real names, we disguise ourselves underneath our aliases. As much as this is a fun tool for forum use, I think it also gives us a bit of a double personality, are we really the person we say we are online? How do we know that the posted field reports aren't made up? How do we take what we learn on this site to the streets, bars, and clubs?

Here is a piece of advice I am going to share with you that helps me immensely when I am feeling out of my flow. My whole life I have been Adam (that is my real name, now you know) Everything about Adam is my whole life, all the memories, all past relationships, everything. So sometimes being Adam can be overwhelming because it feels like all my old emotions come up. So when I feel like I really need to get to the core and figure out what my game is about, I let myself become Mission. Sure, it is just my online persona, but I tell myself that Mission was born when I first started looking on mASF at fastseduction.com; I tell myself that what Mission knows is everything that has happened since mASF. And strangely, it helps me alot, it helps me get into a good frame. I think, "how would Mission act, how would Mission walk, how would Mission talk to girls"; as wierd as it sounds guys, it works extremely well, you can feel an almost immiediate change in your attitude. Of course deep down I am still Adam, I am still myself and I have the same interests and life goals, Mission is my identity when it comes to girls, I no longer think, how would Adam deal with women, I think, "how would Mission deal with this girl". Just try this guys, think of yourself as reborn at the moment that you signed up for an account on mASF or sosuave.com. All you know about women is what you have learned on this site, keep past experiences with girls in the past.

--Mission
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Great way to think about things. Your online persona is you, and I can easily see how this is a better mindset than "How would a Don Juan handle this?"...I use this name on a few websites/accounts--"SupaJ" is a very old nickname of mine given by an uncle...my real name is Jon. My uncle is an incredibly cool guy--if anybody else calls me SupaJ it sounds retarded. He's a confident dude. To me, so is SupaJ.
 

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It's a good idea, but getting caught up in your 'other personality' may not be the best idea. Why not have Adam and Mission become one person? This way you would act instinctually, instead of having to think.
 

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My real name is Tavi so theres no big diferrence, DJ all the way :D
 

Mission

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Skilla_Staz said:
It's a good idea, but getting caught up in your 'other personality' may not be the best idea. Why not have Adam and Mission become one person? This way you would act instinctually, instead of having to think.
Yeah thats the general concept, this technique was something I would use when I felt like I was going back to my AFC ways, kind of a way of keeping yourself in check. As it is now, they are one person.

--Mission
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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