"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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change of plans...

Demodulate

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Girl is a FB at the moment..

Tuesday night she said she would come over wednesday.. she ended up bailing on me as she had stuff to do.. she went shopping instead. called me every hour to banter on, etc..

Its her Birthday today, she was going to come over and we where going to go somewhere nice. when she comes over we end up in the bedroom at some point..

now she just wants to meet out and have dinner.

tomorrow she leaves to go out of town for a week..

so its looking like I am not going to get a chance to poke it before that.

I honestly feel like canceling on her..

I hinted that something is developing at work that might disrupt tonights plans, and she is already freaking out..

so what say you guys? Am I being petty because I want sex before she leaves?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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NewMan

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Girl is a FB at the moment..

Tuesday night she said she would come over wednesday.. she ended up bailing on me as she had stuff to do.. she went shopping instead. called me every hour to banter on, etc..
Let's get our definitions right.

this is about the only phone convo you should have with a FB.

"what you doing?"
"nothing"
"Ok, can I come over?"
"Sure"
Click....


Tell her you'd like to see her tonight bedore she leaves. Tell her you have an issue (whatever) at work, but you can meet her at 9PM - whatever times makes suitable bang time with you - at your place/bar close by.
 

Demodulate

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NewMan said:
Let's get our definitions right.

this is about the only phone convo you should have with a FB.

"what you doing?"
"nothing"
"Ok, can I come over?"
"Sure"
Click....


Tell her you'd like to see her tonight bedore she leaves. Tell her you have an issue (whatever) at work, but you can meet her at 9PM - whatever times makes suitable bang time with you - at your place/bar close by.
yep she already altered her plans to see me at my place before hand..
 

Jitterbug

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Its her Birthday today, she was going to come over and we where going to go somewhere nice. when she comes over we end up in the bedroom at some point..
You were planning to do BF-GF things with your FB?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jeffst1980

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This is why a "FB relationship" is more trouble than it's worth.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Demodulate,
The one Night you will always get a lonely Woman is on her Birthday....All the defences are down often they feel a bit sorry for themselves,they want to reward themselves...For the Plate spinners a good tactic is to get the Birthdays of new ladies as a priority,then out of the Blue a birthday card with some sweet nothings scrawled in it will pay handsome dividends....In your case maybe you have been beaten to the post by some other horny bugger!!!
 
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