"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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change of plans...

Demodulate

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Girl is a FB at the moment..

Tuesday night she said she would come over wednesday.. she ended up bailing on me as she had stuff to do.. she went shopping instead. called me every hour to banter on, etc..

Its her Birthday today, she was going to come over and we where going to go somewhere nice. when she comes over we end up in the bedroom at some point..

now she just wants to meet out and have dinner.

tomorrow she leaves to go out of town for a week..

so its looking like I am not going to get a chance to poke it before that.

I honestly feel like canceling on her..

I hinted that something is developing at work that might disrupt tonights plans, and she is already freaking out..

so what say you guys? Am I being petty because I want sex before she leaves?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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NewMan

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Girl is a FB at the moment..

Tuesday night she said she would come over wednesday.. she ended up bailing on me as she had stuff to do.. she went shopping instead. called me every hour to banter on, etc..
Let's get our definitions right.

this is about the only phone convo you should have with a FB.

"what you doing?"
"nothing"
"Ok, can I come over?"
"Sure"
Click....


Tell her you'd like to see her tonight bedore she leaves. Tell her you have an issue (whatever) at work, but you can meet her at 9PM - whatever times makes suitable bang time with you - at your place/bar close by.
 

Demodulate

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NewMan said:
Let's get our definitions right.

this is about the only phone convo you should have with a FB.

"what you doing?"
"nothing"
"Ok, can I come over?"
"Sure"
Click....


Tell her you'd like to see her tonight bedore she leaves. Tell her you have an issue (whatever) at work, but you can meet her at 9PM - whatever times makes suitable bang time with you - at your place/bar close by.
yep she already altered her plans to see me at my place before hand..
 

Jitterbug

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Its her Birthday today, she was going to come over and we where going to go somewhere nice. when she comes over we end up in the bedroom at some point..
You were planning to do BF-GF things with your FB?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jeffst1980

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This is why a "FB relationship" is more trouble than it's worth.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Demodulate,
The one Night you will always get a lonely Woman is on her Birthday....All the defences are down often they feel a bit sorry for themselves,they want to reward themselves...For the Plate spinners a good tactic is to get the Birthdays of new ladies as a priority,then out of the Blue a birthday card with some sweet nothings scrawled in it will pay handsome dividends....In your case maybe you have been beaten to the post by some other horny bugger!!!
 
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