"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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change of plans...

Demodulate

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Girl is a FB at the moment..

Tuesday night she said she would come over wednesday.. she ended up bailing on me as she had stuff to do.. she went shopping instead. called me every hour to banter on, etc..

Its her Birthday today, she was going to come over and we where going to go somewhere nice. when she comes over we end up in the bedroom at some point..

now she just wants to meet out and have dinner.

tomorrow she leaves to go out of town for a week..

so its looking like I am not going to get a chance to poke it before that.

I honestly feel like canceling on her..

I hinted that something is developing at work that might disrupt tonights plans, and she is already freaking out..

so what say you guys? Am I being petty because I want sex before she leaves?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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NewMan

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Girl is a FB at the moment..

Tuesday night she said she would come over wednesday.. she ended up bailing on me as she had stuff to do.. she went shopping instead. called me every hour to banter on, etc..
Let's get our definitions right.

this is about the only phone convo you should have with a FB.

"what you doing?"
"nothing"
"Ok, can I come over?"
"Sure"
Click....


Tell her you'd like to see her tonight bedore she leaves. Tell her you have an issue (whatever) at work, but you can meet her at 9PM - whatever times makes suitable bang time with you - at your place/bar close by.
 

Demodulate

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NewMan said:
Let's get our definitions right.

this is about the only phone convo you should have with a FB.

"what you doing?"
"nothing"
"Ok, can I come over?"
"Sure"
Click....


Tell her you'd like to see her tonight bedore she leaves. Tell her you have an issue (whatever) at work, but you can meet her at 9PM - whatever times makes suitable bang time with you - at your place/bar close by.
yep she already altered her plans to see me at my place before hand..
 

Jitterbug

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Its her Birthday today, she was going to come over and we where going to go somewhere nice. when she comes over we end up in the bedroom at some point..
You were planning to do BF-GF things with your FB?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jeffst1980

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This is why a "FB relationship" is more trouble than it's worth.
 

Scaramouche

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Dear Demodulate,
The one Night you will always get a lonely Woman is on her Birthday....All the defences are down often they feel a bit sorry for themselves,they want to reward themselves...For the Plate spinners a good tactic is to get the Birthdays of new ladies as a priority,then out of the Blue a birthday card with some sweet nothings scrawled in it will pay handsome dividends....In your case maybe you have been beaten to the post by some other horny bugger!!!
 
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