"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The problem with the forum taking a while to load pages was gone, but now it's come back. It's taking a good while to load up pages from here. I'm not sure if it's the amount of bandwidth or what, but I've never seen another forum take this long to serve pages. Others have told me they've been having problems too, and I've seen this at multiple locations.

I can't think of any suggestions besides change ISPs...I don't know if the BB software can be tuned any. :confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Yeah I was going to somplain about that to. This place is slow. It maybe takes me 30 secs to load a page minimum.... and I have A networked cable modem :eek:

Really maybe you need to mess with something. Optomise the Database or something.
 
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's quick as sh!t today...don't know what the factor is.

EDIT: No sooner do I make this comment than everything goes back into "slug mode" :p
 
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Yeah its been going faster today.... but its' still slow
 
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ITS been goig super slow for me in the past few weeks. And I have DSL. Allen, on behalf of all the members, can you do anything about it please?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I made a sandwich and came back, to find it still loading the main forum page... Now it's good, but an hour ago... yeesh.
 
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