"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The problem with the forum taking a while to load pages was gone, but now it's come back. It's taking a good while to load up pages from here. I'm not sure if it's the amount of bandwidth or what, but I've never seen another forum take this long to serve pages. Others have told me they've been having problems too, and I've seen this at multiple locations.

I can't think of any suggestions besides change ISPs...I don't know if the BB software can be tuned any. :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah I was going to somplain about that to. This place is slow. It maybe takes me 30 secs to load a page minimum.... and I have A networked cable modem :eek:

Really maybe you need to mess with something. Optomise the Database or something.
 
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's quick as sh!t today...don't know what the factor is.

EDIT: No sooner do I make this comment than everything goes back into "slug mode" :p
 
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Yeah its been going faster today.... but its' still slow
 
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ITS been goig super slow for me in the past few weeks. And I have DSL. Allen, on behalf of all the members, can you do anything about it please?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I made a sandwich and came back, to find it still loading the main forum page... Now it's good, but an hour ago... yeesh.
 
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