"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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squirrels

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The problem with the forum taking a while to load pages was gone, but now it's come back. It's taking a good while to load up pages from here. I'm not sure if it's the amount of bandwidth or what, but I've never seen another forum take this long to serve pages. Others have told me they've been having problems too, and I've seen this at multiple locations.

I can't think of any suggestions besides change ISPs...I don't know if the BB software can be tuned any. :confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Capi Crimini

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Yeah I was going to somplain about that to. This place is slow. It maybe takes me 30 secs to load a page minimum.... and I have A networked cable modem :eek:

Really maybe you need to mess with something. Optomise the Database or something.
 

squirrels

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's quick as sh!t today...don't know what the factor is.

EDIT: No sooner do I make this comment than everything goes back into "slug mode" :p
 

Capi Crimini

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Yeah its been going faster today.... but its' still slow
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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ITS been goig super slow for me in the past few weeks. And I have DSL. Allen, on behalf of all the members, can you do anything about it please?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

diablo

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I made a sandwich and came back, to find it still loading the main forum page... Now it's good, but an hour ago... yeesh.
 
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