donArjun
Don Juan
for some reason, the forum turned bright blue....the original was good !
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
change back the forum color
- Thread starter donArjun
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
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Agreed. This sucks.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Scroll to the very bottom of any page. In the left-hand corner, there is a selectable drop down menu. Select "default" (or any of the others if you prefer, but default is the one you're used to). No need to go to the User CP, it's on every page.
You think the bright blue is bad, try the Browner. Gack.. Default is cool.
You think the bright blue is bad, try the Browner. Gack.. Default is cool.
Mitch_Mustain
Don Juan
it kind of reminds me of the classic so suave layout
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
I like the brown.
Blue Phoenix
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This layout is so much better. I like it.Mitch_Mustain said:
BBX
Master Don Juan
I love the classic layout, brings back those bittersweet memories of my extreme afc days. I'm not being sarcastic