donArjun
Don Juan
for some reason, the forum turned bright blue....the original was good !
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
change back the forum color
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Ace of Flames
Master Don Juan
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Agreed. This sucks.
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Scroll to the very bottom of any page. In the left-hand corner, there is a selectable drop down menu. Select "default" (or any of the others if you prefer, but default is the one you're used to). No need to go to the User CP, it's on every page.
You think the bright blue is bad, try the Browner. Gack.. Default is cool.
You think the bright blue is bad, try the Browner. Gack.. Default is cool.
Mitch_Mustain
Don Juan
it kind of reminds me of the classic so suave layout
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
I like the brown.
Blue Phoenix
Master Don Juan
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This layout is so much better. I like it.Mitch_Mustain said:
BBX
Master Don Juan
I love the classic layout, brings back those bittersweet memories of my extreme afc days. I'm not being sarcastic