"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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chances on number closing, have you guys experienced this?

909pua

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I'm the kind of person that when i'm in public, if i see a hot girl, i won't be making eye contact, instead i would be acting very calm, confident, and not even looking at her and minding my own business. I just notice that 50% of the time when I'm out somewhere, some of these b itches would come walking around me, follow me, or go RIGHT NEXT to me (i mean to the point where their arm is almost touching mine), maybe trying to get my attention or something or maybe she's interested.

Is this an IOI (therefore interested in me) where i can just start a convo and number close or are they just trying to prove to themselves that once i look at them, they bounce and insure themselves that i was checking them out all along?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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woops i posted this in the wrong area, can someone move it to the general forum? i dont know how
 
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