"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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chances on number closing, have you guys experienced this?

909pua

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I'm the kind of person that when i'm in public, if i see a hot girl, i won't be making eye contact, instead i would be acting very calm, confident, and not even looking at her and minding my own business. I just notice that 50% of the time when I'm out somewhere, some of these b itches would come walking around me, follow me, or go RIGHT NEXT to me (i mean to the point where their arm is almost touching mine), maybe trying to get my attention or something or maybe she's interested.

Is this an IOI (therefore interested in me) where i can just start a convo and number close or are they just trying to prove to themselves that once i look at them, they bounce and insure themselves that i was checking them out all along?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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woops i posted this in the wrong area, can someone move it to the general forum? i dont know how
 
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