"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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chances on number closing, have you guys experienced this?

909pua

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I'm the kind of person that when i'm in public, if i see a hot girl, i won't be making eye contact, instead i would be acting very calm, confident, and not even looking at her and minding my own business. I just notice that 50% of the time when I'm out somewhere, some of these b itches would come walking around me, follow me, or go RIGHT NEXT to me (i mean to the point where their arm is almost touching mine), maybe trying to get my attention or something or maybe she's interested.

Is this an IOI (therefore interested in me) where i can just start a convo and number close or are they just trying to prove to themselves that once i look at them, they bounce and insure themselves that i was checking them out all along?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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woops i posted this in the wrong area, can someone move it to the general forum? i dont know how
 
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