Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Challenge me!!

Demonicale

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I don't know about the rest of you, but i have a new lease of life at the moment, my confidence is in orbit!.

I've been far too long on the sidelines and now i'm on a constant high by just being completly random and risky!.

So PLEASE give me a challenge :)

Maybe everyone else can join in for it's saturday night!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Don't be too risky though. Always use protection. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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go kill a one legged hooker with her own prosthetic leg

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KingBeef said:
That's some hot sh#t, I just might try it this weekend
write a LR afterwards

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Demonicale

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Ok i've choked in the last few weeks, i think it's because the guy's i hang around with are VERY VERY VERY nerdy and they're worse than AFC.

So sometimes that does put me off what i'm out to do sometimes,

Ok that and the fact drink effected me abit.

Enough of the ***** excuses, i'll make up for it tonight :)
 

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Demonicale said:
Ok i've choked in the last few weeks, i think it's because the guy's i hang around with are VERY VERY VERY nerdy and they're worse than AFC.

So sometimes that does put me off what i'm out to do sometimes,

Ok that and the fact drink effected me abit.

Enough of the ***** excuses, i'll make up for it tonight :)
Yeah I get what you mean. My friends are quite nerdy too. They sort of drift into LTRs out of convenience/social circle game. Just plain luck IMO.

As for a challenge, I say try to get a free lap dance! Or try to make out with the hottest bartender the same night you meet her.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Demonicale

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Black.Magic said:
Yeah I get what you mean. My friends are quite nerdy too. They sort of drift into LTRs out of convenience/social circle game. Just plain luck IMO.

As for a challenge, I say try to get a free lap dance! Or try to make out with the hottest bartender the same night you meet her.

Back after a break, well i've not had a lap dance from a girl, although i've pulled 2 barmaids and took them back on the same nights :)
 
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