"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Challenge me!!

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I don't know about the rest of you, but i have a new lease of life at the moment, my confidence is in orbit!.

I've been far too long on the sidelines and now i'm on a constant high by just being completly random and risky!.

So PLEASE give me a challenge :)

Maybe everyone else can join in for it's saturday night!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Don't be too risky though. Always use protection. :)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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go kill a one legged hooker with her own prosthetic leg

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KingBeef said:
That's some hot sh#t, I just might try it this weekend
write a LR afterwards

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Ok i've choked in the last few weeks, i think it's because the guy's i hang around with are VERY VERY VERY nerdy and they're worse than AFC.

So sometimes that does put me off what i'm out to do sometimes,

Ok that and the fact drink effected me abit.

Enough of the ***** excuses, i'll make up for it tonight :)
 

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Demonicale said:
Ok i've choked in the last few weeks, i think it's because the guy's i hang around with are VERY VERY VERY nerdy and they're worse than AFC.

So sometimes that does put me off what i'm out to do sometimes,

Ok that and the fact drink effected me abit.

Enough of the ***** excuses, i'll make up for it tonight :)
Yeah I get what you mean. My friends are quite nerdy too. They sort of drift into LTRs out of convenience/social circle game. Just plain luck IMO.

As for a challenge, I say try to get a free lap dance! Or try to make out with the hottest bartender the same night you meet her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Black.Magic said:
Yeah I get what you mean. My friends are quite nerdy too. They sort of drift into LTRs out of convenience/social circle game. Just plain luck IMO.

As for a challenge, I say try to get a free lap dance! Or try to make out with the hottest bartender the same night you meet her.

Back after a break, well i've not had a lap dance from a girl, although i've pulled 2 barmaids and took them back on the same nights :)
 
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