Sasha
Don Juan
HAHA, gotta love it :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
Good stuff right here. Thought I'd add another one just for the hell of it. One of my favorites is going to a horror movie with my buddies and sitting behind a bunch of hott chicks with my friends. Before the movie starts...
you: (say loudly to your buddies) 5 bucks on the cute blonde in front of me.
her: usually turns around and gives you a puzzled look
you: 5 bucks says you'll be the first to scream
her: usually says something like you're gonna lose your money or I don't get scared.
you: we'll see
then during the first tense moment, lean forward and grab her shoulder or neck and go raaarwwwrr! 9 times out of 10 she'll at least jump. Then you just say, "hey, I had to win the bet! Sorry, I'll buy you a coke or something."
guys, its magic.
you: (say loudly to your buddies) 5 bucks on the cute blonde in front of me.
her: usually turns around and gives you a puzzled look
you: 5 bucks says you'll be the first to scream
her: usually says something like you're gonna lose your money or I don't get scared.
you: we'll see
then during the first tense moment, lean forward and grab her shoulder or neck and go raaarwwwrr! 9 times out of 10 she'll at least jump. Then you just say, "hey, I had to win the bet! Sorry, I'll buy you a coke or something."
guys, its magic.
bballkilla
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bump this stuff is awesome
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
