"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Centralized thread for Field Reports?

Should there be a field-report only thread?

  • yes

    Votes: 10 100.0%
  • no

    Votes: 0 0.0%

  • Total voters
    10

Luveno

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2004
Messages
1,107
Reaction score
12
Age
44
I have a suggestion:

There have been many posts on this forum about how things have gone "downhill" lately. As I have only joined the forum less than a year ago, I cannot really comment on that.

My suggestion is to have a large forum devoted to field reports and thats it. This would allow those who are looking for improvement on their game to post somewhere where it is centralized.

Also, a centralized FR section would make it easier for DJs or RAFCs to read and gain knowledge from the experiences of others.

The complaints about how many "useless" posts crowd good ones, such as FRs, would cease due to this new streamlined approach.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

So pimp its scary

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2003
Messages
1,677
Reaction score
3
Age
44
Location
In the C-A-N-A-D-A-Eh!
Why would we do that?? Almost nobody writes FR's... and those that dissapear very quick compared to the typical posts.
 

Ever onward

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 11, 2004
Messages
968
Reaction score
3
We used to have a section for "Suggestions and Feedback" but anything that was suggested was never implemented.

And yes one of the suggestions were for a FR section but nothing ever came of it.

I am in favor of such a section. The problems with the board are:

-Too many of the same questions getting asked over and over

-no field reports (see above)

-too many trolls and KJ's

-there aren't enough people here who actually go out and do stuff, they just post, post POST
 

Luveno

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2004
Messages
1,107
Reaction score
12
Age
44
Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Why would we do that?? Almost nobody writes FR's... and those that dissapear very quick compared to the typical posts.
If there was a special section for FRs, they wouldn't disappear. This would in turn give people more incentive to write them, for they wouldn't be lost among the repetitive questions that are a plague of this board.
 

So pimp its scary

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 9, 2003
Messages
1,677
Reaction score
3
Age
44
Location
In the C-A-N-A-D-A-Eh!
Hey, I'm all for the idea... I quite often post my FR's that are worth writing... although I don't expect that it would end the plague.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Luveno

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2004
Messages
1,107
Reaction score
12
Age
44
I'm bumping this up.
 

Luveno

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 15, 2004
Messages
1,107
Reaction score
12
Age
44
The main problem with the regular discussion thread is that if one posts a field report, it gets buried by the multitude of questions and comments. I'm not saying that all of these comments are useless, only that the sheer number of them clutter the board.

If a new user(because isn't that what we are here for, to improve the game of men across the world?) comes to the site, after reading the DJ bible of course, and wants to read or post about real-world experience, it becomes a chore for this person to do so(time is of the essence of a true DJ). Digging into the discussion board for FRs is a waste of time and nearly impossible(using the search command will overlook some field reports not labelled with "FR" or "Field report").

Also, those who would like feedback on their field reports would be better served if there was a thread solely for field reports, for the same reasons of cluttering mentioned above.

The poll so far suggests that a new thread would be beneficial to the site. Of course, the sample size is small right now. Hopefully more people will show their opinion and take a stand on the issue.
 
Top