"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Centralized thread for Field Reports?

Should there be a field-report only thread?

  • yes

    Votes: 10 100.0%
  • no

    Votes: 0 0.0%

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Luveno

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I have a suggestion:

There have been many posts on this forum about how things have gone "downhill" lately. As I have only joined the forum less than a year ago, I cannot really comment on that.

My suggestion is to have a large forum devoted to field reports and thats it. This would allow those who are looking for improvement on their game to post somewhere where it is centralized.

Also, a centralized FR section would make it easier for DJs or RAFCs to read and gain knowledge from the experiences of others.

The complaints about how many "useless" posts crowd good ones, such as FRs, would cease due to this new streamlined approach.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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So pimp its scary

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Why would we do that?? Almost nobody writes FR's... and those that dissapear very quick compared to the typical posts.
 

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We used to have a section for "Suggestions and Feedback" but anything that was suggested was never implemented.

And yes one of the suggestions were for a FR section but nothing ever came of it.

I am in favor of such a section. The problems with the board are:

-Too many of the same questions getting asked over and over

-no field reports (see above)

-too many trolls and KJ's

-there aren't enough people here who actually go out and do stuff, they just post, post POST
 

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
Why would we do that?? Almost nobody writes FR's... and those that dissapear very quick compared to the typical posts.
If there was a special section for FRs, they wouldn't disappear. This would in turn give people more incentive to write them, for they wouldn't be lost among the repetitive questions that are a plague of this board.
 

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Hey, I'm all for the idea... I quite often post my FR's that are worth writing... although I don't expect that it would end the plague.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm bumping this up.
 

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The main problem with the regular discussion thread is that if one posts a field report, it gets buried by the multitude of questions and comments. I'm not saying that all of these comments are useless, only that the sheer number of them clutter the board.

If a new user(because isn't that what we are here for, to improve the game of men across the world?) comes to the site, after reading the DJ bible of course, and wants to read or post about real-world experience, it becomes a chore for this person to do so(time is of the essence of a true DJ). Digging into the discussion board for FRs is a waste of time and nearly impossible(using the search command will overlook some field reports not labelled with "FR" or "Field report").

Also, those who would like feedback on their field reports would be better served if there was a thread solely for field reports, for the same reasons of cluttering mentioned above.

The poll so far suggests that a new thread would be beneficial to the site. Of course, the sample size is small right now. Hopefully more people will show their opinion and take a stand on the issue.
 
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