"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cells phone calls around plates

georgie24

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guys

when your spending time with a plate do you answer your cell phone when another plate is calling?

Do you look at your phone and silence it? have all calls go straight to VM while your with her? do you pick up the call?

Beta phaggot influenced with very little social skills i cant figure wich one is appropriate while with plates:confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pdx1138

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Turn the ringer off and give her the respect she might earn.

expect the same from her.
 

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How much of a beta phaggot can you be if you have so many plates calling you during dates with other plates?

georgie24, why are you lying to us? I thought we were friends.
 

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That's the beauty of texting. I text with multiple chicks while I'm sitting on the couch watching TV or hanging out in the hot tub with them.

They always say "Can't you put your phone down?" and I say "It's for work, honey."

Be sure to have your phone auto-lock when you're at their place though. They WILL go through it eventually. Has happened to me twice (that I know about).
 

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I don't answer the phone nor reply to texts when I'm with a plate. And I expect her to do the same but I don't make a huge deal of it unless she's on it too much.

But I do leave the ringer on so she can hear whenever I get a text.
I've had girls say shyt like: "You're Mr Popular!"
I think that might help generate some competition anxiety.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Harry Wilmington

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I leave my phone off. If you're with plate #1 and plates 2 through 5 are calling you, and you let it go to voice mail, they'll wonder what you're up to or why you're not picking up your phone. Amazingly, I find this only makes them want to be with you more (especially if you don't tell them why you had your phone off - it drives them crazy, but in a good way :))
 

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I dont reply to anything when Im with a woman because It's nice to make them wait every now and then , ill get to them when I can , but it also put's it into perspective whe nthey wont answer your texts or calls , think about what situation you would have to be in to ignore a text or call from a girl you were gaming
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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You got to have some sort of mutual respect. Turn your cell phone on silent!

For me it is tricky because I have 2 girlfriends if I don't pick up they are always trying to act suspicious in stuff. But anyway give the girl some sort of respect. Put your phone down and vibe with her.
 
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