"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cells phone calls around plates

georgie24

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guys

when your spending time with a plate do you answer your cell phone when another plate is calling?

Do you look at your phone and silence it? have all calls go straight to VM while your with her? do you pick up the call?

Beta phaggot influenced with very little social skills i cant figure wich one is appropriate while with plates:confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pdx1138

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Turn the ringer off and give her the respect she might earn.

expect the same from her.
 

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How much of a beta phaggot can you be if you have so many plates calling you during dates with other plates?

georgie24, why are you lying to us? I thought we were friends.
 

Zarky

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That's the beauty of texting. I text with multiple chicks while I'm sitting on the couch watching TV or hanging out in the hot tub with them.

They always say "Can't you put your phone down?" and I say "It's for work, honey."

Be sure to have your phone auto-lock when you're at their place though. They WILL go through it eventually. Has happened to me twice (that I know about).
 

Greasy Pig

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I don't answer the phone nor reply to texts when I'm with a plate. And I expect her to do the same but I don't make a huge deal of it unless she's on it too much.

But I do leave the ringer on so she can hear whenever I get a text.
I've had girls say shyt like: "You're Mr Popular!"
I think that might help generate some competition anxiety.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Harry Wilmington

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I leave my phone off. If you're with plate #1 and plates 2 through 5 are calling you, and you let it go to voice mail, they'll wonder what you're up to or why you're not picking up your phone. Amazingly, I find this only makes them want to be with you more (especially if you don't tell them why you had your phone off - it drives them crazy, but in a good way :))
 

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I dont reply to anything when Im with a woman because It's nice to make them wait every now and then , ill get to them when I can , but it also put's it into perspective whe nthey wont answer your texts or calls , think about what situation you would have to be in to ignore a text or call from a girl you were gaming
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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You got to have some sort of mutual respect. Turn your cell phone on silent!

For me it is tricky because I have 2 girlfriends if I don't pick up they are always trying to act suspicious in stuff. But anyway give the girl some sort of respect. Put your phone down and vibe with her.
 
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