"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cell Phone + Woman = Not Aprocable?

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well in alot of cases when im just walking around or haning out i see alot of signle good looking girls walking around and they are isolated however they are talking on the cellphone and are oblivious to every one else.

im thinking shes realy hot and i would realy like to get to know her. however if i inturupt her call she may be mad at me. e thoughts on this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Dude odds r shes just on the phone cuz she feels insecure. She wants to look like she's not a loser and has friends, so she talks on her phone. Most of the time i think girls just play around with their phone rather than talk on it.
 
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It can go both ways. A lot of friends that are female who I know often say that they pretend they are on the phone to make themselves appear busy, and less able to approach.

My girlfriend does this, her friends do too, mainly when they are in bad parts of town or late at night to discourage rapists from coming to them, because they can scream on the phone to the other person to call police or something.

There are a lot of people on cell phones but a lot of people also NOT on them. Just look hard enough.
 
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thats exactly wat i meant i was just at a loss of words to explain it. Goldhearts got it
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ok thats all dandy, but can some one tell me how to aproch a girl with cell phone...

"sorry i dont mean to intrupt."

"hi" ...
"go away loser, cant u see im trying to talk."

"hey baby, so uh.. who you talking to?"
"hi mind if i make a call after your done?"

so basicaly u player r saying if shes on the phone chances are she dosent want to be approched and dont waist your time on her? ... yes but what if shes realy hot... some one must have atleast some thory that would work.. or some exprience or somethigng help me out here.
 
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If you have balls, INTERRUPT her and treat it like a normal approach. If she has high interest level, she'll probably hang up for you.:D

Got that from here.
 
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"If she has high interest level, she'll probably hang up for you."

I doubt it, but hey, do what you do.
 
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You could just follow them around and wait till they get off the phone. Don't make it obvious tho, hide behind **** if they sense you. I swear... it doesn't make you a stalker. :D

Yeah, odds are they are just insecure. I'm sure they would hang up and talk to you, as long as they're not talking to there dying grandmother.

I remember before i found this site i would do that just walk around, with no one on the other line. (i had no one to talk to) I would have loved for someone to interrupt me. But then again, i am a dude
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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