"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cell Phone + Woman = Not Aprocable?

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well in alot of cases when im just walking around or haning out i see alot of signle good looking girls walking around and they are isolated however they are talking on the cellphone and are oblivious to every one else.

im thinking shes realy hot and i would realy like to get to know her. however if i inturupt her call she may be mad at me. e thoughts on this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude odds r shes just on the phone cuz she feels insecure. She wants to look like she's not a loser and has friends, so she talks on her phone. Most of the time i think girls just play around with their phone rather than talk on it.
 
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It can go both ways. A lot of friends that are female who I know often say that they pretend they are on the phone to make themselves appear busy, and less able to approach.

My girlfriend does this, her friends do too, mainly when they are in bad parts of town or late at night to discourage rapists from coming to them, because they can scream on the phone to the other person to call police or something.

There are a lot of people on cell phones but a lot of people also NOT on them. Just look hard enough.
 
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thats exactly wat i meant i was just at a loss of words to explain it. Goldhearts got it
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ok thats all dandy, but can some one tell me how to aproch a girl with cell phone...

"sorry i dont mean to intrupt."

"hi" ...
"go away loser, cant u see im trying to talk."

"hey baby, so uh.. who you talking to?"
"hi mind if i make a call after your done?"

so basicaly u player r saying if shes on the phone chances are she dosent want to be approched and dont waist your time on her? ... yes but what if shes realy hot... some one must have atleast some thory that would work.. or some exprience or somethigng help me out here.
 
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If you have balls, INTERRUPT her and treat it like a normal approach. If she has high interest level, she'll probably hang up for you.:D

Got that from here.
 
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"If she has high interest level, she'll probably hang up for you."

I doubt it, but hey, do what you do.
 
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You could just follow them around and wait till they get off the phone. Don't make it obvious tho, hide behind **** if they sense you. I swear... it doesn't make you a stalker. :D

Yeah, odds are they are just insecure. I'm sure they would hang up and talk to you, as long as they're not talking to there dying grandmother.

I remember before i found this site i would do that just walk around, with no one on the other line. (i had no one to talk to) I would have loved for someone to interrupt me. But then again, i am a dude
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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