"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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cell phone question

kickureface

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if you call someone and it rings, meaning the call went through, and it rings twice but then it goes to the voicemail, what does it mean?
im thinking she saw my id and just closed her phone?

because if her phone is off, it would go directly to voicemail without the rings right?

or if she's talking to someone else it wouldnt ring, it would rather have this weird tone thing.

thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ValleyDJing

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just relax. it just means her cell phone fu<ked up! most cell phones automatically answer when someone flips them open, and if she did that and hung up on you, u wouldn't get her voicemail. ur okay
 

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That's not necessarily true. Nokia candybars have an 'ignore' option where it will ring a couple times then go to answering machine. Some of my friends used to do this to me ~4 years ago pre-SS.
 

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Every cell phone I know of, if you hit end or close the phone, they either hang up on you or send you directly to the voice mail. That is what my dad's, sister's, brother in law's and coach's cell phones do. I would recommend leaving a SINGLE voicemail and leaving her alone for a few days, if she doesn't call you back.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Potbelly

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wow who gives a ****. stop foking OVER ANALYZING GOD FVCKING DAMN
 

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Potbelly said:
wow who gives a ****. stop foking OVER ANALYZING GOD FVCKING DAMN
He gives a ****... and you sure as hell will be searching this **** the next time a HB does the same thing to you. So STFU. This happens to a whole lot of us, and this is obviously a potential IL indicator.
 

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Nobody said:
He gives a ****... and you sure as hell will be searching this **** the next time a HB does the same thing to you. So STFU. This happens to a whole lot of us, and this is obviously a potential IL indicator.
yeah kid, you dunno me. I don't care if anyone does that to me. If you care ok, man but seirously keep wasting your mind and time on this crap. She mighta been busy. PEople have lives. Learn to live yours as an independent so you don't care so much about how other people react to you (and it might not even be a reaction to YOU).

peace dude. hopefully you will think of yourself as more than a nobody someday
 

ValleyDJing

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Potbelly said:
yeah kid, you dunno me. I don't care if anyone does that to me. If you care ok, man but seirously keep wasting your mind and time on this crap. She mighta been busy. PEople have lives. Learn to live yours as an independent so you don't care so much about how other people react to you (and it might not even be a reaction to YOU).

peace dude. hopefully you will think of yourself as more than a nobody someday
and hopefully u will consider yourself more than just a potbelly. sorry dude...had to do it. haha! you left yourself wide open for that one. truce.
 

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yeah kid, you dunno me. I don't care if anyone does that to me. If you care ok, man but seirously keep wasting your mind and time on this crap. She mighta been busy. PEople have lives. Learn to live yours as an independent so you don't care so much about how other people react to you (and it might not even be a reaction to YOU).

peace dude. hopefully you will think of yourself as more than a nobody someday
I'm on the road to it... I'll change screenames when I become somebody, until then I'm nobody.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ValleyDJing

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Nobody said:
I'm on the road to it... I'll change screenames when I become somebody, until then I'm nobody.
yeah about that...how do you change your screen name? i tried a little while ago but couldn't figure it out.
 

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That means it's got little to no signal, and/or was switched off in the first place.

So basically they wouldn't see the call anyway.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
and hopefully u will consider yourself more than just a potbelly. sorry dude...had to do it. haha! you left yourself wide open for that one. truce.
lol haha. i tip my hat off to you sir :rockon:
 
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