“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kickureface

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if you call someone and it rings, meaning the call went through, and it rings twice but then it goes to the voicemail, what does it mean?
im thinking she saw my id and just closed her phone?

because if her phone is off, it would go directly to voicemail without the rings right?

or if she's talking to someone else it wouldnt ring, it would rather have this weird tone thing.

thanks
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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just relax. it just means her cell phone fu<ked up! most cell phones automatically answer when someone flips them open, and if she did that and hung up on you, u wouldn't get her voicemail. ur okay
 

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That's not necessarily true. Nokia candybars have an 'ignore' option where it will ring a couple times then go to answering machine. Some of my friends used to do this to me ~4 years ago pre-SS.
 

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Every cell phone I know of, if you hit end or close the phone, they either hang up on you or send you directly to the voice mail. That is what my dad's, sister's, brother in law's and coach's cell phones do. I would recommend leaving a SINGLE voicemail and leaving her alone for a few days, if she doesn't call you back.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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wow who gives a ****. stop foking OVER ANALYZING GOD FVCKING DAMN
 

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Potbelly said:
wow who gives a ****. stop foking OVER ANALYZING GOD FVCKING DAMN
He gives a ****... and you sure as hell will be searching this **** the next time a HB does the same thing to you. So STFU. This happens to a whole lot of us, and this is obviously a potential IL indicator.
 

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Nobody said:
He gives a ****... and you sure as hell will be searching this **** the next time a HB does the same thing to you. So STFU. This happens to a whole lot of us, and this is obviously a potential IL indicator.
yeah kid, you dunno me. I don't care if anyone does that to me. If you care ok, man but seirously keep wasting your mind and time on this crap. She mighta been busy. PEople have lives. Learn to live yours as an independent so you don't care so much about how other people react to you (and it might not even be a reaction to YOU).

peace dude. hopefully you will think of yourself as more than a nobody someday
 

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Potbelly said:
yeah kid, you dunno me. I don't care if anyone does that to me. If you care ok, man but seirously keep wasting your mind and time on this crap. She mighta been busy. PEople have lives. Learn to live yours as an independent so you don't care so much about how other people react to you (and it might not even be a reaction to YOU).

peace dude. hopefully you will think of yourself as more than a nobody someday
and hopefully u will consider yourself more than just a potbelly. sorry dude...had to do it. haha! you left yourself wide open for that one. truce.
 

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Potbelly said:
yeah kid, you dunno me. I don't care if anyone does that to me. If you care ok, man but seirously keep wasting your mind and time on this crap. She mighta been busy. PEople have lives. Learn to live yours as an independent so you don't care so much about how other people react to you (and it might not even be a reaction to YOU).

peace dude. hopefully you will think of yourself as more than a nobody someday
I'm on the road to it... I'll change screenames when I become somebody, until then I'm nobody.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Nobody said:
I'm on the road to it... I'll change screenames when I become somebody, until then I'm nobody.
yeah about that...how do you change your screen name? i tried a little while ago but couldn't figure it out.
 

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That means it's got little to no signal, and/or was switched off in the first place.

So basically they wouldn't see the call anyway.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
and hopefully u will consider yourself more than just a potbelly. sorry dude...had to do it. haha! you left yourself wide open for that one. truce.
lol haha. i tip my hat off to you sir :rockon:
 
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