"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cell phone question

kickureface

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if you call someone and it rings, meaning the call went through, and it rings twice but then it goes to the voicemail, what does it mean?
im thinking she saw my id and just closed her phone?

because if her phone is off, it would go directly to voicemail without the rings right?

or if she's talking to someone else it wouldnt ring, it would rather have this weird tone thing.

thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ValleyDJing

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just relax. it just means her cell phone fu<ked up! most cell phones automatically answer when someone flips them open, and if she did that and hung up on you, u wouldn't get her voicemail. ur okay
 

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That's not necessarily true. Nokia candybars have an 'ignore' option where it will ring a couple times then go to answering machine. Some of my friends used to do this to me ~4 years ago pre-SS.
 

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Every cell phone I know of, if you hit end or close the phone, they either hang up on you or send you directly to the voice mail. That is what my dad's, sister's, brother in law's and coach's cell phones do. I would recommend leaving a SINGLE voicemail and leaving her alone for a few days, if she doesn't call you back.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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wow who gives a ****. stop foking OVER ANALYZING GOD FVCKING DAMN
 

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Potbelly said:
wow who gives a ****. stop foking OVER ANALYZING GOD FVCKING DAMN
He gives a ****... and you sure as hell will be searching this **** the next time a HB does the same thing to you. So STFU. This happens to a whole lot of us, and this is obviously a potential IL indicator.
 

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Nobody said:
He gives a ****... and you sure as hell will be searching this **** the next time a HB does the same thing to you. So STFU. This happens to a whole lot of us, and this is obviously a potential IL indicator.
yeah kid, you dunno me. I don't care if anyone does that to me. If you care ok, man but seirously keep wasting your mind and time on this crap. She mighta been busy. PEople have lives. Learn to live yours as an independent so you don't care so much about how other people react to you (and it might not even be a reaction to YOU).

peace dude. hopefully you will think of yourself as more than a nobody someday
 

ValleyDJing

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Potbelly said:
yeah kid, you dunno me. I don't care if anyone does that to me. If you care ok, man but seirously keep wasting your mind and time on this crap. She mighta been busy. PEople have lives. Learn to live yours as an independent so you don't care so much about how other people react to you (and it might not even be a reaction to YOU).

peace dude. hopefully you will think of yourself as more than a nobody someday
and hopefully u will consider yourself more than just a potbelly. sorry dude...had to do it. haha! you left yourself wide open for that one. truce.
 

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Potbelly said:
yeah kid, you dunno me. I don't care if anyone does that to me. If you care ok, man but seirously keep wasting your mind and time on this crap. She mighta been busy. PEople have lives. Learn to live yours as an independent so you don't care so much about how other people react to you (and it might not even be a reaction to YOU).

peace dude. hopefully you will think of yourself as more than a nobody someday
I'm on the road to it... I'll change screenames when I become somebody, until then I'm nobody.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ValleyDJing

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Nobody said:
I'm on the road to it... I'll change screenames when I become somebody, until then I'm nobody.
yeah about that...how do you change your screen name? i tried a little while ago but couldn't figure it out.
 

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That means it's got little to no signal, and/or was switched off in the first place.

So basically they wouldn't see the call anyway.
 

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ValleyDJing said:
and hopefully u will consider yourself more than just a potbelly. sorry dude...had to do it. haha! you left yourself wide open for that one. truce.
lol haha. i tip my hat off to you sir :rockon:
 
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