"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DJnoob

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if you ask a woman her phone #, is it better if she gives u her cellphone or home phone #?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's the difference? A lot of people (like me) don't even have home phones anymor.
 
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DJnoob

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so, which one would be better? her cell or home phone to have
 
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Originally posted by DJnoob
so, which one would be better? her cell or home phone to have
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Come on dude; you've already been told it doesn't matter.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
What's the difference? A lot of people (like me) don't even have home phones anymor.
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I'm one of those too. I dont even have a land line.

Next time you're out and you want a woman's phone number...just get the cell number. The 'rule' that you must always get her home number because it shows high IL was written WAY back in the days when not everyone had a cell phone. Now a days, even my 13 year old sister has one.

I think a woman would find it a bit creepy if you denied her cell phone number and demanded her home phone. Besides, women and men are on the go. The chances you get her live on the home phone is smaller than with a cell phone.
 
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You got a number, now just give her a call and set up a date.
 
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