"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJnoob

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if you ask a woman her phone #, is it better if she gives u her cellphone or home phone #?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What's the difference? A lot of people (like me) don't even have home phones anymor.
 
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DJnoob

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so, which one would be better? her cell or home phone to have
 
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Originally posted by DJnoob
so, which one would be better? her cell or home phone to have
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Come on dude; you've already been told it doesn't matter.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
What's the difference? A lot of people (like me) don't even have home phones anymor.
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I'm one of those too. I dont even have a land line.

Next time you're out and you want a woman's phone number...just get the cell number. The 'rule' that you must always get her home number because it shows high IL was written WAY back in the days when not everyone had a cell phone. Now a days, even my 13 year old sister has one.

I think a woman would find it a bit creepy if you denied her cell phone number and demanded her home phone. Besides, women and men are on the go. The chances you get her live on the home phone is smaller than with a cell phone.
 
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You got a number, now just give her a call and set up a date.
 
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