"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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cell or home #

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if you ask a woman her phone #, is it better if she gives u her cellphone or home phone #?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's the difference? A lot of people (like me) don't even have home phones anymor.
 
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so, which one would be better? her cell or home phone to have
 
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Originally posted by DJnoob
so, which one would be better? her cell or home phone to have
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Come on dude; you've already been told it doesn't matter.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by ApocalypseCow2
What's the difference? A lot of people (like me) don't even have home phones anymor.
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I'm one of those too. I dont even have a land line.

Next time you're out and you want a woman's phone number...just get the cell number. The 'rule' that you must always get her home number because it shows high IL was written WAY back in the days when not everyone had a cell phone. Now a days, even my 13 year old sister has one.

I think a woman would find it a bit creepy if you denied her cell phone number and demanded her home phone. Besides, women and men are on the go. The chances you get her live on the home phone is smaller than with a cell phone.
 
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You got a number, now just give her a call and set up a date.
 
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