"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well i got a dillemma, im havin a lot of fun with this girl and shes been very open with me, but she tells me since her last relationship she wants to call it quits for a while, the breakup being a few months ago, she broke up with him, but i was wondering what can be done when cuz i want her and she aint like most others, she wants no intimacy for many months and i wouldnt be surprised if she kept to her word to, but i dont wanna wait which would give room for competition. feels like i gotta glass roof ova my head and i really wanna break it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by dragon771315
well i got a dillemma, im havin a lot of fun with this girl and shes been very open with me, but she tells me since her last relationship she wants to call it quits for a while, the breakup being a few months ago, she broke up with him, but i was wondering what can be done when cuz i want her and she aint like most others, she wants no intimacy for many months and i wouldnt be surprised if she kept to her word to, but i dont wanna wait which would give room for competition. feels like i gotta glass roof ova my head and i really wanna break it.
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low interest level..
move on..


its such a damn hot day today in melbourne (australia) i just can't be ****ed with my normal long winded posts.
 
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If you don't want to wait, then don't. If you think she might not be entirely serious about her commitment, then take a risk. It's your call.
 
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whats gettin at me tho is why is she doin this, she says shes been datin lots of guys with no time inbetween and wants a break, you think this is really true?
 
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Originally posted by dragon771315
whats gettin at me tho is why is she doin this, she says shes been datin lots of guys with no time inbetween and wants a break, you think this is really true?
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its a nice way of saying, sorry, ur a 'nice guy' but i'm not interested in you. just ignore her, and get on with your life.
if she notices that, her interest may build, but even then, you may have moved on enough you're not interested.. get on with things.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This is why I thank God for so.suave. Until I found this site I actually BELIEVED the BS excuses like this one that women give out, and spent ages agonising over them and wondering what to do about them, when all I needed to do was say 'next'.
 
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