"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"celibate" dilemma

dragon771315

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well i got a dillemma, im havin a lot of fun with this girl and shes been very open with me, but she tells me since her last relationship she wants to call it quits for a while, the breakup being a few months ago, she broke up with him, but i was wondering what can be done when cuz i want her and she aint like most others, she wants no intimacy for many months and i wouldnt be surprised if she kept to her word to, but i dont wanna wait which would give room for competition. feels like i gotta glass roof ova my head and i really wanna break it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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quest

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Originally posted by dragon771315
well i got a dillemma, im havin a lot of fun with this girl and shes been very open with me, but she tells me since her last relationship she wants to call it quits for a while, the breakup being a few months ago, she broke up with him, but i was wondering what can be done when cuz i want her and she aint like most others, she wants no intimacy for many months and i wouldnt be surprised if she kept to her word to, but i dont wanna wait which would give room for competition. feels like i gotta glass roof ova my head and i really wanna break it.
low interest level..
move on..


its such a damn hot day today in melbourne (australia) i just can't be ****ed with my normal long winded posts.
 

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If you don't want to wait, then don't. If you think she might not be entirely serious about her commitment, then take a risk. It's your call.
 

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whats gettin at me tho is why is she doin this, she says shes been datin lots of guys with no time inbetween and wants a break, you think this is really true?
 

quest

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Originally posted by dragon771315
whats gettin at me tho is why is she doin this, she says shes been datin lots of guys with no time inbetween and wants a break, you think this is really true?

its a nice way of saying, sorry, ur a 'nice guy' but i'm not interested in you. just ignore her, and get on with your life.
if she notices that, her interest may build, but even then, you may have moved on enough you're not interested.. get on with things.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is why I thank God for so.suave. Until I found this site I actually BELIEVED the BS excuses like this one that women give out, and spent ages agonising over them and wondering what to do about them, when all I needed to do was say 'next'.
 
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