"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"celibate" dilemma

dragon771315

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well i got a dillemma, im havin a lot of fun with this girl and shes been very open with me, but she tells me since her last relationship she wants to call it quits for a while, the breakup being a few months ago, she broke up with him, but i was wondering what can be done when cuz i want her and she aint like most others, she wants no intimacy for many months and i wouldnt be surprised if she kept to her word to, but i dont wanna wait which would give room for competition. feels like i gotta glass roof ova my head and i really wanna break it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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quest

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Originally posted by dragon771315
well i got a dillemma, im havin a lot of fun with this girl and shes been very open with me, but she tells me since her last relationship she wants to call it quits for a while, the breakup being a few months ago, she broke up with him, but i was wondering what can be done when cuz i want her and she aint like most others, she wants no intimacy for many months and i wouldnt be surprised if she kept to her word to, but i dont wanna wait which would give room for competition. feels like i gotta glass roof ova my head and i really wanna break it.
low interest level..
move on..


its such a damn hot day today in melbourne (australia) i just can't be ****ed with my normal long winded posts.
 

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If you don't want to wait, then don't. If you think she might not be entirely serious about her commitment, then take a risk. It's your call.
 

dragon771315

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whats gettin at me tho is why is she doin this, she says shes been datin lots of guys with no time inbetween and wants a break, you think this is really true?
 

quest

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Originally posted by dragon771315
whats gettin at me tho is why is she doin this, she says shes been datin lots of guys with no time inbetween and wants a break, you think this is really true?

its a nice way of saying, sorry, ur a 'nice guy' but i'm not interested in you. just ignore her, and get on with your life.
if she notices that, her interest may build, but even then, you may have moved on enough you're not interested.. get on with things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Austin Allegro

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This is why I thank God for so.suave. Until I found this site I actually BELIEVED the BS excuses like this one that women give out, and spent ages agonising over them and wondering what to do about them, when all I needed to do was say 'next'.
 
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