"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Caught up again!!!!

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Here's a brief summary of the situation

-Was dating for about a year.
-We broke up basically because we were seeing too much of each other like seeing and sleeping with each other everyday and got frustrated with each other often.
-We did not talk for about 2 weeks, then started talking again.
-I work where she lives but I moved away so I commute to work now.


Here is what is happening right now
-Talking now and I have slept at her house about 5 times in the last 10 days. Had sex and was going to again last night but I got messed up a little too much. We kiss affectionatley and everything.
-She brought up letting me stay at her house a couple times a week so I agreed.
-Me and her tell each other that we love each other and she always asks me if I do and I say yes or you know the answer.
-She also kind of brought up what she wants and vice or versa. She says she doesnt know what she wants and I didnt really tell her what I want. But I want her as my gf again i try not to tell her know that, maybe my actions do though

I feel that we are getting close too each other again but if she ends up not wanting to be in a relationship again then that sucks. Maybe deep down inside she does too i dont know. Right now my cell phone is shut off and it will stay off for the next couple of days im suppose to stay over her house tomorrow cause I need to think about what im getting into and be unavailable ;). Im not going to bring up where we are at or what I want I know thats her job. But what else can I do here? I dont know if i should leave or stay around its hard I can just pick up and leave.
 
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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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you need to bring Balance to the Force.


how old are you?

it seems you spent way to much time with her.

I mean seeing your girl 4 or 5 times a week is great.

but if ur spending the night as well..that can be overkill.

bring balance to ur life and it will fall in place.
 
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See other women do you? If not, perhaps this will aid in clarifying answers my young padawan.

See her too much you do. She senses your desperation for a relationship.

One-itis do you have.

:nervous:
 
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Im 22 and shes 24. Im going to try to bring balance its good that I dont live up here with her anymore right now. Im not with her right now "technically" weve only been hanging out again for about 2 weeks after not being together for about a month. I just dont like not knowing where we stand but I know I cant bring it up cause it might scare her. Im the type of person that just wants to get things doen right then and there but I try to have a lot of self control
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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well i was basically living there I had a house cause I was in college also but I would stay at her house basically everynight and be with her everynight. I know there is a possibility of getting back together since im not living next to her anymore so therefore would only see each other a couple times a week
 
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